Finding Your Village

To attain professional highs, it takes determination, hard work and it cannot be done without support. It’s important to acknowledge those in your life who provide the much-needed encouragement to help get through the tough times and achieve success. Whether your closest circle of supporters is small or large, as human beings, we all need a village we can count on.

For some, their greatest aid comes from parents. Naturally, parents care for you and your well-being. Mom and Dad know you the best and know what to say when you need words of encouragement. Definitely being able to count on parents is invaluable for future success.

Others turn to their spouse for strength and support. Your significant other is on the journey with you at every step of the way. When the relationship is built on trust, love, and support, you turn to your spouse to help you grow. Having a spouse who can lift you up is someone you definitely need in your village.

Friends can be the biggest support group that you can count on. Good friends are more precious than possessions. As the old adage goes: “it’s better to have four quarters than one hundred pennies.” Friends will tell you when you’re making bad choices and help you make good ones. You should have a few solid friends you can rely on when building your village.

Just as imperative to find in your village is a mentor. A mentor is someone with whom you build a connection and someone to ask for advice. Mentors have a special set of skills and knowledge that may have a greater impact on you professionally… more than anyone. Since mentors have walked the walk and have a deeper level of understanding about the profession as well as life in general, their words of wisdom are invaluable. If you don’t have a mentor in your life, I would suggest finding one at the Beverly Hills Bar Association.

A person is not an island. We all need to build strong villages around us to help us succeed. The earlier we realize what our village should look like, the better off we will be in the long run. It doesn’t matter the size of your village, what matters is who is in it. On your journey through life, think about the people you want to surround yourself with and build your village.


Yan Goldshteyn is a Principal attorney at Maven Law Firm, with a concentration on immigration and business law practice areas: 310 363 0240 or Yan@mavenlawfirm.com.

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